Comments on: A Note Of Thanks

By: RevBev

RevBev — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 18:11:53 +0000

Christy, We know you have had full plate. Speaking of fog…at 2 different times recently, I really felt as if I could not recall where the time had gone. First we were all so involved in the election; everything was focused on the issues, the race, the damage in the wake of W, and the excitement of new hope. Then, abot 6 months have passed in the New Year. Where does that time go? Thank you for walking with us, making the trip more exciting. FWIW…I lost some family 2 1/2-3 years ago. I swear recently I has mostly felt as if I have come back to life…a sort of physical healing. Much that your family has been through. I hope you find a way to rest, enjoy the time, replenish..This little shelter here has been such a blessing to me…to share and to learn when I have been bereft of my own family. Count that comfort as one of the gifts you have shared….

By: Arbusto

Arbusto — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 16:10:54 +0000

Redd: As has been stated, you are a pillar of FDL. We all get our time in the grinder, it’s unavoidable as is the grieving and hopefully, recover. Take care of you and yours first.

That said, remember always Mah Nà Mah Nà

By: diablesseblu

diablesseblu — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 16:00:58 +0000

Have mostly been lurking of late….due to family issues also. However, Christy, I have been astonished by the postings you have done and I haven’t noticed any “fog”. Also, you have been very clear in a most positive and proactive way about your schedule and priorities. You’re a great role model for the rest of us.

Of course it does seem like your day must have more hours in it than mine. *g*

By: Christy Hardin Smith

Christy Hardin Smith — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 15:36:43 +0000

I know how much your sister means to you — hugs, hon.

By: Lindy

Lindy — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 15:32:39 +0000

Christy, my brother in law is going through a lot right now. My sister had a series of strokes. We took care of her at home for over a year, but he’s 81, I had to return to New Orleans, and they just couldn’t manage the 24 hour care she needs. He had to sell everything, but she’s in a place where she gets the best care (in both meanings of that word). But he misses her. They’ve been married for over 50 years. We cry together sometimes.

By: Lindy

Lindy — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 15:28:00 +0000

I’ve been reading, but not commenting much. Changing positions at work. Steep learning curve and much to do. Then there’s the house. Then there’s the garden. But I always read. And your last post on health care rocked. Sent it to everyone I know. Winner of the Golden Whip.

By: Christy Hardin Smith

Christy Hardin Smith — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 15:18:48 +0000

We’re trying our best to make it as loving and easy as we can. It’s been a tough year for him, and that’s really an understatement — losing your wife of more than 50 years of marriage has been such a tough blow, and getting old just isn’t for sissies. He’s doing really well, under the circumstances, and that’s the most we can hope for, I think.

I’m just happy to be able to help. It’s what we do for family.

By: Christy Hardin Smith

Christy Hardin Smith — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 15:17:16 +0000

Hey back at you, Lindy. Good to see you. :)

By: msmolly

msmolly — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 15:00:06 +0000

So are we all, Christy. Wishing much success to your family as you “share” your FIL with the others. I hope I never need it, but if I do, I hope my family will love and care for me in my last years as gently as you all are doing for your FIL.

By: Lindy

Lindy — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 14:59:21 +0000

Morning, Christy. You’re the best.